~In the name of Allah.
When you care too much about a certain person (It doesn't necessarily have to be your significant other), you do everything in your power to make sure they are on no account at fault, to the extent of blaming yourself for everything, and doing what you assume they would want you to do.
But when that certain person bring yr hopes down, you say that Life is Unfair. GOD is unfair. Life is full of Sh*t. I may have wrongly estimated the amount of brain cells u have in there but Dont you atleast have your religion to rely on? If u want to complain, you're welcomed to do so. but think before you say something would u. There are other people in the world going thru bitter experiences too.
'“Boleh jadi kamu membenci sesuatu, padahal ia amatlah baik bagimu. Dan boleh jadi kamu mencintai sesuatu, padahal ia amatlah buruk bagi kamu. Allah Maha mengetahui sedangkan kamu TIDAK.” (al-Baqarah: 216)